Is bride price still relevant? Luv FM discussion sparks controversy

The long-standing tradition of bride price payment became the center of a heated debate on Luv In The Morning, as host David Akuetteh and his female panellist discussed whether the practice remains culturally significant or has turned into a financial burden.

Akuetteh questioned whether bride price still symbolizes respect or has evolved into a transactional obligation. “Has it become a financial burden, or is it still a sign of respect?” he asked.

The panellist acknowledged its cultural importance but noted that excessive demands from some families have distorted its original intent. “In the past, it ensured the bride had what she needed for her new home. But now, some requests make it seem like a business deal,” she argued.

Defending the tradition, she explained that it serves as a form of appreciation for the parents’ role in raising their daughter. However, Akuetteh challenged this, questioning whether financial demands were necessary to prove respect. “Should a groom be made to pay for everything the parents have done for their daughter?”

While the panellist maintained that bride price represents commitment rather than a sale, Akuetteh raised concerns about the financial pressure it places on grooms. “Times are hard. If a man is forced to spend so much before marriage, how does that affect the couple’s financial future?”

The discussion ended with both sides holding firm—one arguing that the practice has become a financial strain, while the other insisted it remains a meaningful tradition when kept within reasonable limits.