Laju Iren Breaks Down Common Mistakes Good Girls Make in Relationships

In her latest video, Laju Iren addresses relationship pitfalls many good girls unknowingly fall into, such as the “savior syndrome” and the “it must work syndrome.” She explains that the savior syndrome often traps girls in unhealthy situations, as they try to “fix” someone else. Her key advice: “You don’t have to date someone to change them; if they want to change, they can do it without dating you.”

Laju also critiques the “it must work” mindset, where women feel pressured to make relationships work to satisfy societal or familial expectations. She urges against being a people-pleaser, emphasizing the importance of focusing on pleasing God and trusting His guidance in relationships. Her insights encourage women to prioritize their well-being and faith over external pressures.