Women Often Don’t Know What They Want – Okey Bakassi

Nigerian comedian Okey Bakassi shared his thoughts on women’s emotional dynamics during The Honest Brunch podcast.

Drawing from personal experience and marriage, he noted that women often struggle to articulate their desires, leading to behaviors that men find confusing.

Bakassi described moments when his wife’s emotions shifted rapidly, emphasizing that such changes are natural and not necessarily tied to a man’s actions.

He urged men to respond with patience, understanding, and emotional intelligence, rather than trying to “fix” situations.

According to him, listening and allowing women space to process their emotions can strengthen relationships.

Bakassi highlighted the importance of adjusting to these emotional fluctuations to foster harmony in romantic, familial, and platonic connections.